When I met my bf he didnt smoke anything. Cigarettes or Pot, he didnt drink and told me that he didnt like alcohol because of his mom being a very bad alcoholic (my mother is as well, and her father died from alcoholism- which is genetic) a few months into of relationship he got to where he would have a few beers after work usually no more than 3. he got to where when he would drink he became angry at everything around him. i voiced my concern and told him i didnt like alcohol and i wished he would stop. he then told me the reason he drank is because he didnt have any pot. i was unaware that he even smoked it. ….. its been almost 2 years and he has continued to drink& smoke and has now picked up a new cigarette addiction. he goes to court on monday (3 days away) and has promised me since last monday that he would stop. he is supposed to be placed on 2yrs probation for the trouble he caused and im worried that even after he is place on probation that he will not stop. how to i make him realize that if he fails even 1 ua that they court will have him thrown in jail? i asked him tonight if he couldnt make himself quit then what could? and he said “when i sign my name ill stop”
please help
he will not be serving a jail term until he officially fails 3 drug tests.