Court Ordered Drug Rehabilitation

My husband started acting weird three or four years ago. I found out October 2007 he was using crack. He swore he stopped. In September I filed for divorce after he threw a phone at me and said he would kill me. In October 2008 he went to rehab, after the court ordered drug test came back VERY positive (off the charts according to the judge). I told him I wasn’t stopping the proceedings just because he did this. I am about to be forced into bankruptcy because he maxed out my credit and left me to pay the bills and care for our two children.

Here’s the rub. I do love him. I didn’t speak to him for a month, thinking the feelings would lessen….but they didn’t. He wants me to give him another chance. I want to, but so many people have helped me survive the past few months and if I take him back it is like I don’t appreciate it. I don’t know what I should do.

MY son and is addicted to RX drugs. He wants help now but has no job, money or insurance. His wife is also addicted. He now wants help but they have run up all my credit cards to buy drugs so I can’t help him. He has friends in a rehab in Lexington so I would like to find one farther away from home. I pressed charges against both him and his wife for forging checks and they are court ordered to rehab, but that has not been any help. You still have to do it all yourself unless you want them to sit in jail with other addicts for 6 to 8 months while they try to find them a place. Not to mention the fact that you can get the durgs while you are in jail too.

I have an uncle who is addicted to cocaine, but has no desire so seek help. We have tried to help him, but he thinks his whole family hates him and is just out to get him. He has never been arrested for it, but if he did, how many times would he have to actually go to jail before the system sees fit to order him into rehab? Will they do it after the first offense? I don’t think he sells, I just think he is buying it for himself.

He lives at my grandma’s and has the blinders pulled over her eyes. She doesn’t see the problem, but in two years he cannot get a job. He keeps lying and making up excuses about why he can’t get work. He is sucking my grandma dry of all finances and she is even pawning everything she owns jUSt to give him money so he can “go find another job.”

Please help!!! Has anyone ever been through this and how can we help him?????
No one in our family is able to pay for him to go into rehab, that is why I want to know how the courts can help us out.