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I’v done all I know to do, Please help me and answer, it involves my son’s care?

Posted by admin in Uncategorized on July 12, 2010

Okay, if anyone of you have ever seen some of my other questions posted, you will know, this is a long story, so to try and make it short… My son has a dead beat dad who parents keep taking me to court to let my son be able to visit him in rehad and jail (granted they didn’t care about seeing my son EVER, not even before he went to jail) Last time we went to court, something happen and it got postponed but we found out that he is currently in rehab awaiting trial for meny felony charges in which he will go to jail. But they are giving him weekend passes to come home. We have a old outstanding order to let him have supervised visits with my son everyother weekend fri-sun. If he gets out for a past, I have to make my son go or I’m in contempt. I have a lawyer who says there is nothing I can do to stop this. But there has gotta be! Can’t I do some kind of emergency hearing to stop visits?
he gets the weekend passes from rehab. don’t you think its crazy to let someone with a drug problem out on weekends? Once when he was on his way to pick up my son, he got pulled over and was cought with a stolen, loaded gun and drugs and went to jail. He has about 7 felony charges he is awaiting trial for and they let him out on the weekends! It doesn’t make since
his visits are supervised but its by his parents and my son has to stay at there house all weekend long.

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How do I file for child support if my son’s Father isn’t on the birth certificate?

Posted by admin in Uncategorized on July 3, 2010

He left me when I was pregnant to smoke dope. I didn’t know where he was when my son was born so I didn’t call him to come to the hospital, so he is not on the birth certificate.

I wasn’t going to ask for child support initially, because I don’t want him to have any custody over his son if he is high on meth 100% of the time he is awake. He begged and begged to meet his son, and when he was 4 months old I caved and gave him the chance… which he blew off to smoke dope.

Now, when I look at my son I’m pissed at him to no end, and I want child support. He doesn’t have a job so I’m not going to get any, but if he ever pulls his life back together he needs to contribute to the life of the child he made. He shouldnt just be allowed to knock up a dozen women while he roams the street getting high all day and night. He has another son in Cali who he walked out on 8 years ago. She filed for child support and he has to pay when he works.

He is not on the birth certificate… and I don’t want him awarded any custody because he’s always high… what are the steps I have to take to prove to a court he’s the Father, and to request he take a drug test if he wants visitation? I’d put money on it that he won’t even show to court. He was ordered to go to rehab in lieu of prison for violating his probation for getting caught shoplifting with dope on him, but he never went, so Im sure there is a warrant for him.

I also don’t have the slightest idea where he lives, so I don’t know how they’d serve him. Last I checked he was homeless and robbing people to pay for hotels so he could sell drugs out of them to have money to use them. What a winner right? His mom keeps me well updated, she and the rest of his fam are just as pissed at him as I am. She is the one who strongly insisted I file for child support.

I can’t afford a lawyer at all. So, I need to figure out what I need to do on my own and make it happen. I know absolutely nothing about how anything in family court is done. I live in Phoenix, AZ. Any advice you could give would be a major help. Thank you!

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Should I notify my sons Probation Officer?

Posted by admin in Uncategorized on May 5, 2010

My son is on probation, for the past few days he has been staying out all night, I suspect he is smoking pot and drinking – the drinking age in our state is 21, he is 19, he live at home with me. Should I notify his probation officer?? He is on probation for reckless driving and a DUI. Obviously…. being on probation doesn’t phase him any, still doing what he did before. He is not driving, thank goodness, I took him off my insurance policy. He really needs help, can the court order him to rehab instead of jail??
Sage B, your a pretty nasty and angry person, maybe you need some counseling of your own!
Sweet stuff, thanks you have a good point!

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I was arrested for DUI, and am soon to be sentenced 2-7 days. What do I tell my 2 teenaged sons?

Posted by admin in Uncategorized on April 26, 2010

I was arrested in February while still married. Our divorce is now done, and we have joint physical custody. I have entered an out-patient treatment program for alcoholism. My kids have never seen me drink in excess, and rarely saw me drink at all. Yet I admit I am an alcoholic, and my wife is addicted to prescription drugs (she’s still in denial). How much do I tell my kids when they jail me for 2-7 days (probably) and I lose my license for a year? I want to give them the truth, but how much? And should I tell them this week before court? Neither my ex nor my kids even know about the arrest or treatment yet. I am committed to quiting. What and how much do I say?

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