i had my son for about four years now, but it was only a verbal agreement that i start him in school, and lives with me because we live in different counties, she has 2 other children with 2 different dads, a couple years later she got into trouble with cps being drunk and leaving her youngest in the house unintended, unfortunately the cps had to check me out as well for months. they found nothing on me, and eventually the judge awarded me physical custody, she was in and out of rehab twice during the last year and a half, in February she finished her last phase of the court ordered rehab, now she wants custody and hired a lawyer, she said some very bad things about me, however she has no proof of anything.the problem i face is Sense this all was court ordered she was under her best behavior, because the dhs was watching her the whole time, so as far as getting anything on her will be very hard, will the judge look at her past or look at it as she is clean and sober now. i only think she is staying sober until the court is done. i moved farther away from her but within the 100 mile rule. and she is using that as leverage because i never asked permission. i live in michigan. any help would be appreciated.