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What should I expect in court where my Ex has been charged with contempt for failing to pay his child support?

Question by Anj: What should I expect in court where my Ex has been charged with contempt for failing to pay his child support?
The ADA filed the charge against him. He owes our 3 children over four thousand dollars in back child support. He has changed jobs repeatedly each time making less money. He thinks that makes it alright for him to stop paying his support as ordered. He has also moved several hours away, and hasn’t kept one of his court ordered visitations in a year. I have done everything I could to accommodate him. I have brought the children to him every time they have seen him except for two. These visits are not regular visit. He only stays about fifteen minutes or so and then leaves. This time it’s been over two months since he has seen them. He even missed our youngest child’s birthday. The children feel like they don’t know him anymore, and that he doesn’t know them. He thinks nothing will happen to him when he goes to court. He also threatens me that if he goes to jail, he will never pay his child support again. It really is out of my hands. I filed the case with the state office of child support recovery (Ga.). It has been extremely hard for the children and I since he stopped paying his support. I desperately need some relief through this court proceeding, but I’m not sure what to expect. I appreciate any help, especially if you have been through some thing similar.

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Answer by Javier169
They will make him pay a certain amount by a certain time or he will be put behind bars…at least this is what they did to my deadbeat mother of my children

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Should the laws on alcoholism be changed?

Question by Natu: Should the laws on alcoholism be changed?
For what reason?

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Answer by Mercer Devil
I was unaware there were laws specifically addressing alcoholism. I thought that was more of a medical and social concern than a legal issue.

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Mother in Law is causing anxiety attacks and driving me to alcoholism should I see a phsycologist?

Question by Hotmami619: Mother in Law is causing anxiety attacks and driving me to alcoholism should I see a phsycologist?
The thought of her drives me crazy for hours. When my husband tells me he wants us to go to her house I have to make a liquor store run first..She’s not good to my mind. Do I need phycological evaluation? Do you think i could benefit..I’m trying to get better so I can save my marriage
I only drink when I have to see her so I don’t jump on her.
She’s manipulative and controlling here are some details;

We used to live with her to help her pay her mortgage. I got fed up with her telling my husband everthing I did from me slamming the toilet seat too load to who I was talking to on the phone….I confronted her and told her that I didn’t appreciate her telling the world that i manipulate her son???(she was doing the manipulating) IF he wasn’t home she would harrass me to tell her where he was at!!(Like I was a dictator or something) We moved out the week I confronted her finally!! After that she had a diabetic problem and was hospitaqlized…telling the whole family it was my fault!! Lil’ did she know we were there as well because out babies had hand foor and mouth disease…I had to bring it to her attention becuase she claimed her son didn’t care..she turned red and saw how upset I was.
We have 2 kids together. She’s white and was not happy that my babies’ eyes were brown and not blue or green!!

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Answer by chicago floater
nope whoop her butt and lay down the law. am sure you can take her ol curmudgeon azz

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Should a custodial parent, who is denying the court order visitation rights of the other parent, without a?

Question by George McCasland – Dads Rights: Should a custodial parent, who is denying the court order visitation rights of the other parent, without a?
justifiable and provable cause, be required to provide a security bond (cash or certificate), that they forfeit the next time they violate the orders?

With 60% of court ordered visitation violated within the first six months of the order, according to the U.S. Dept. of Health & Human Services study, “Survey of Absentee Parents”, and no government programs to enforce, this could be an effective way to address the issue. Unlike child support, visitation recovery stops when the child reaches 18. And, in today’s economy, judges can no longer automatically jail those who violate family court orders. States are releasing prisoners, without the need for probation reporting, in increasing numbers.

A bond can be in cash or through a bonding agency.
Ruth,
You really should read more of my answers before assuming I’m bias. I drop hammers on father who created their own problems, and I told mothers how to enforce orders. I tell fathers to wait until their children are grown before starting another family. Check my advice to women wanting to marry men with children, or visa versa,

My reference materials are available to anyone.

Finally, I want to make things harder for fathers, not easier, by promoting Bird Nest custody.

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Answer by samworld
I think holding the custodial parent responsible for carrying out the court’s orders is a good thing. Right now the non-custodial parent has almost no rights if the custodial parent decides to deny visitation. My husband had to go through this with his son’s mother. She would change her mind about letting him see his son, not be at the prearranged meeting places, lie about what times they would be home to pick up my stepson. And every time we called the Police Dept. they said to call the Sheriff’s Dept, who said to call the Attorney General’s office, who pretty much said sucks to be you. Sure there are a lot of people who are neglecting their duties as parents, but there are a lot of parents who are basically at the mercy of the custodial parent’s whims. We had to go to court again and have it added to the custody agreement that we could pick him up from school just to avoid dealing with a mother who should be happy that her son’s father wanted to see him as much as possible. Instead she did everything in her power to make us and her own son miserable. Who’s looking out for the parents trying to do the right thing who are getting shafted? Nobody.

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should the judge that ordered me to wear this alcohol monitoring device be in prison? I was in Mean Girls?

Question by Drunk Slut Lindsay: should the judge that ordered me to wear this alcohol monitoring device be in prison? I was in Mean Girls?

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Answer by Major Deek
I’m tellin ya, it just ain’t funny.

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Should any one who owns a business be made to prove legal status?

Should all who apply for a business license be made sure that they are here legally?
Should this be a national requirement for all businesses?
Should illegal aliens be allowed to own a business here since they have disrespected our laws?
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City business owners must prove citizenship
Filling out an application is not enough anymore. Business owners within the city of Conyers must now confirm they are in the country legally before they can run a business.
Reporter: By Alena Parker, Staff Reporter
Email Address: alena.parker@rockdalecitizen.com

CONYERS — Filling out an application is not enough anymore. Business owners within the city of Conyers must now confirm they are in the country legally before they can run a business.

Local government agencies were recently called to verify citizenship and immigration status of business owners through the Systematic Alien Verification for Entitlements, or SAVE, program of the U.S. Department of Homeland Security and the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services.

The Conyers City Council voted Jan. 20 to enter into an agreement with the federal agencies though Conyers city attorney Michael Waldrop noted they did not have much choice.

“The Georgia Legislature has required that cities and counties participate in the SAVE program to verify the legality of those who do business and receive benefits from the city,” Waldrop told the council members.

Councilman Marty Jones voiced concerns that paying for notary services every year, in addition to getting a business license, would be inconvenient “on the operations side.”

“People who write the regulations don’t have to live by them,” Jones said.

The new requirement will affect the roughly 1,800 businesses in Conyers.

“Unless you have a notary in your office, the proprietor is going to have to go somewhere — whether it’s the city, the bank, the post office, somewhere — to get someone to notarize this document (affidavit), swearing that he is, in fact, a legal citizen or here legally, whatever the status may be,” Waldrop said.

The new requirement will affect those applying for retirement benefits, health benefits, contracts, alcoholic beverage licenses, occupation tax certificates, taxi cab licenses, insurance company licenses, pawn brokers licenses, massage therapists licenses, billiard room operations licenses, precious metals and gems dealers licenses, conducting flea market licenses and peddlers and itinerant trades licenses, according to the city documents.

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Punxsutawney probe: Officer should get job back

Punxsutawney probe: Officer should get job back
A police detective fired from his job last year after a man died in the back seat of his cruiser must be reinstated, the borough’s civil service commission ordered Thursday.

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Should CPS workers be brought before an inquiry and challenged to put thier LIFE on the answers they give?

Since they have so much power to say “yes or no” about a child being taken away from a parent, shouldn’t they be required to put their life on the line? If it was a matter of sexual abuse, I’d put my life on the line for a child but to call a parent an “alcoholic” when you’re not sure, would you put your life on it?

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Should Murder Reflect Badly on Lacrosse?

Should Murder Reflect Badly on Lacrosse?
Should the murder of UVA lacrosse player Yeardley Love reflect badly on the sport, or on schools?

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Should all pubs in Britain be required to look a certain way before they can operate? pls read on…?

What I mean is nice clean carpets, walls, windows and decor. Clean sanitary toilets. CCTV in all areas other then toilet cubicles, specific glasses for non alcoholic and alcoholic drinks. Grounds must be cleaned daily and children not allowed in ANY areas that people smoke in.

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Where should I get this tattoo?

I’m 17 and I’ve been through a lot this past year, being in a mental hospital for 6 weeks for things in my past that are being acknowledged now. I’m going to get my second tattoo when I decide where I want it.

My first tattoo says ‘Alis Volat Propriis’ which means she flies with her own wings, going down my left arm

http://i199.photobucket.com/albums/aa276/renzy19/tattttoo.jpg

This tattoo means a lot to me because I cut this into the same arm at my lowest point, before a suicide attempt. To me that tattoo represents independence and how only I can make myself better.

My next tattoo I want to get is to represent my past and moving forward. I want Bansky’s Girl & balloon with a quote from thriving ivory’s “Hey Lady” “Don’t give up on me, don’t burn your heart out love

This tattoo, to me represents losing the ability to love at a weak point in your life, which I lost the ability to love myself, and you know how the saying goes “You can’t love someone else, until you love yourself.” I believe from may until two weeks ago was my weakest point. And the girl is reaching out for it, which for me symbolizes my treatment, and me trying to make myself better, and gaining control of my life again. It also symbolizes loss of innocence, which relates to me because I was raped when I was 12, grew up with an abusive stepfather with a neglectful mother, I was quite promiscuous growing up, and abused numerous drugs and alcohol. It also symbolizes growing up, which I never planned on doing, considering I made a suicide pact with myself when I was 12 that I would kill myself by 18. Now I’m ready to try. I think it symbolizes letting go too, I need to let go of my past in order to live a full and happy life. The quote also means a lot to me, I found Thriving Ivory a couple days before every thing started happening, and Hey Lady represent my teacher who’s been supporting me from Day 1 of all this.

So my question is where should I get this tattooed? I’m leaning towards my chest, I want it somewhere visible, any suggestions?
Here’s a picture of me if it helps

http://i199.photobucket.com/albums/aa276/renzy19/untitled.jpg

Thank you in advance (:
Thank you guys. (:

I can’t really do feet, although I like the idea, because of the quote :/ I want it somewhere so the world can basically see where I’ve been, and where I’m going.

Alis Volat Propriis is latin (:

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Should marijuana be legalized due to our economic situation?

I dont care what you think about marijuana and what it is…
I’m asking if you believe it should be legalized to help out with our deficit. Men lie, numbers dont:

1. 17 billion a year for the Office of National Drug Control Policy

2. 20,000 a year per inmate for keeping non violent criminals in prison

3. 1.7 million people in jail 22 to 33% of these are for marijuana sales

4 11.3% percent of students tried marijuana before age 13

Legalized it would be much more in the sense of alcohol, even though its not as dangerous as alcohol.

The Hemp grown from the stalk could be used for so many different things what people dont know is that big corporations dont want marijuana legalized because then Hemp would be legal and alot of people would go out of business. But so many more good things would happen fo the people of America
I just learned Henry Fords first Model-T ran on hemp gasoline. with our more sophisticated science we cant do it again?
And marijuana grows fast we would be off oil uh oh just put the oil companys out of business

1 acre of marijuana is equal to 4.1 acres of trees for making paper uh oh just put logging industries in the hole
i dont smoke weed i’m an American for real and i care about my country.
I will conclude with this, it is said, by officials in our government that there has been no official marijuana studies when in fact there has it seems that it will take at least 3 more generations to get over the barriers that the government has created in effects to marijuana. I know people who have smoked for 20+ years and all the things that i hear bad about it are untrue.

Whereas the real danger lies in the actual smoke inhalation not the plant. If you inhale any form of smoke you will kill braincells and the government used that to say marijuana kills brain cells when the truth is THC is the only chemical found in a plant that our brain has a receptor for. Our brain sends other chemicals to these same receptors but the use is still unknown.
Thank you all for answering and being logical.

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What should I do While My girlfriend is off at jail/rehab?

Our son is a year any day now and through all of this she has only seen him maybe a couple months. She says she is done with drinking and pills and regrets not being there and hurts everyday. I have a protection order on her parents. Long story short They are drug abusers and can be physically and emotionally abusive. My son will not go over there! I went to court with her real nice and easy and now have full custody of my son. I’m giving her that opportunity to come out and be the mom she says she wants to be. I guess if she comes out and reverts back than i have already done everything I needed to do. Well what are some of the things I can do? I have been laid off from Chrysler for the whole time she has been gone and raising our son. Maybe it was meant to be that I got laid off at the time I did. Sure do mis the $ though… Dang economy :) Well what can I do with the remaining time with my son? How to prepare for her? Also good ideas to do in general?

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What should I do? Family trouble. Please help.?

This is long but I need your help

I’m 19 (male) and my brother is 21. My brother is an alcoholic (Very violent and angry drunk) and has been since he was like 15. He’s been in and out of jail and rehab but nothing has helped him. He has a DUI and hasn’t been able to get a license for about 2 years. He currently has no job and is living at home with my parents and I. He is taking a medication called antibuse to prevent him from drinking (court order) and has been drinking anyway.

I’m working full time and attending local college. I smoke pot every week or two, but when it comes down to it I’m very responsible.

Lately my brother has been getting out of control with his drinking again and has been throwing things and breaking things, yelling and making threats.

My dilemma is that since I was 13, my life has been mostly destroyed living with my brother. He does nothing but criticize my existence and threaten me. He’s unapproachable when he’s drunk because he’s very violent and angry. He calls me and lies to me to get me to lend him money (which I dont), and yells at me when i opt no (cuz i know its for booze).

My main concern is he gets his license back soon and I can promise he will get a new DUI. I feel like it is my responsibility to tell authorities that he is still drinking uncontrollably to spare other drivers on the road. His last DUI he went 80 mph into a pole on a 45mph road and walked away with no injury.

My parents don’t know that he’s currently drinking. I’m afraid that if I say something about my brothers drinking, he will tell my parents I smoke. Which will in turn get me kicked out of the house.

What are my options to have something done about my brother’s excessive drinking problem, he’s going to end up killing himself or someone else.

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should drug users be given rehab time over prison time?

wouldnt that cut down the prison population along with curing the addicts?

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I have an arrest warrant in Colorado for a DUI probation violation. What should I do?

I got in a misdemeanor DUI wreck in 2005 in Weld County, Colorado. I received some fines and was ordered 2 years probation with alcohol counseling and random breath tests. I paid all my fines but never showed up for the treatment. I am from Kansas and had just moved to Colorado when I got in my DUI wreck. No one was hurt, I was the only vehicle involved.

I moved back home to Kansas about a year and a half ago, and naively assumed that since I had paid my fines the court might not come after me. I now have a warrant for my arrest.

I need to know what I should do. I am thinking about taking a bus to Colorado and turning myself in, but I am completely broke and can’t afford an attorney. I am trying to join the military, which is why I’m looking into this now.

What will happen to me if I just go turn myself in? I was originally given 90 days in jail but they let me off on probation.

PLEASE HELP! Let me know what legal actions I should take, and what to expect. THANK YOU!!
my probation period was two years. the warrant came out 1 month after the probation was to have ended.
Ok two additional things- What will happen to me if I ignore this and go on living life as normal? Will the marshals come get me or something?

Also, I am extremely serious about wanting to join the military. Could someone with some legal knowledge let me know if this might have any bearing on my situation?

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Idaho GOP: Inmates should earn keep through labor

Idaho GOP: Inmates should earn keep through labor
Associated Press – June 26, 2010 5:14 PM ET IDAHO FALLS, Idaho (AP) – Republican delegates voted to back a resolution for Idaho inmates to pay for their own room and board through hard…

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Should we send Drug Abusers to Rehab or Prison?

$40000 vs $7000 per person per year. It cost a estimated 40 billion a year to keep non violent drug abusers in prison.

it seems like if you really wanted to be conservative this is one of the first places you would cut cost.

The way we fight the war on drugs does not work

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What should I do about my drug problem.?

I just got out of a 90 day rehabilitation center in Jasper. I had a bad problem with meth and ampetamines(adderall), i was sober for almost 120 days and here recently i have went back to my old habits, lying, stealing, doing anything to get high. I am constantly seeking my next high. I am court ordered to attend NA meetings and attend an outpatient rehab every monday and thursday, there i get randomly drug tested, if i fail im goin back to rehab, but now im wondering if maybe it’s the best thing before i end up dead?

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should i makeup initials for being verified at narcotics/alcoholics anonymous meetings for probation visit?

i have a probation meeting coming up and i haven’t gone to any of the required aa/na/cma, etc meetings. should i put fake initials down for the “verified” part on the form? or should i just be truthful and risk going back to jail? is there anyway he/she can tell that i put fake initials on the form?

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