I have known him for 4yrs now, been married almost 2yrs. House is in my name with my grandmother as co-signer. All bills, credit cards, both vehicles, insurance, etc. are in my name. Nothing is in his. However, we consider 1 vehicle his & 1 mine. No argument on who will get what on those. We also have horses & he has put alot of blood & sweat into making a comfy farm for them. So yes, he has contributed to the value of the home. Has received his 2nd dui & I want out. All the broken promises of quitting. All the neglect & lonliness I suffer from. I have begged, pleaded & asked nicely for him to move out until he can get help. He will not do anything other than what the court orders. Meaning, he will not do anything to help to save us. In being 37, I want “out” to be able to find the happiness I deserve and have worked hard for all my life to have. Does it have to get nasty or can I just get a restraining order or something to get him to either get the hint or get out?