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How can I prove to the courts that my husband is an alcoholic & should have limited visitation?

Question by ret340: How can I prove to the courts that my husband is an alcoholic & should have limited visitation?
I am about to file for divorce & NEED to prove my husband is an alcoholic & will put our 3-year-old’s safety at risk. I know most judges will rule the alcoholic can’t drive the child or have him overnight, but I have no proof that my husband is a drunk!
He drinks at his home & doesn’t drive much. He hides vodka in his laptop bag so he can drink at work, but hasn’t been caught yet. Strangely enough, he is a brilliant IT director & very respected!
I know for a fact that he drink around the clock because he has physical withdrawals if he goes without alcohol one day. He physically can’t avoid alcohol in order to have visitation since he gets violently ill, so I know he’ll drink while caring for my son (even if the jugde orders him not to).
Since he has no DUI offenses & hasn’t lost jobs due to driking, what else can I do to prove he is an alcoholic & that he will put our son’s safety in danger?
BTW, he has driven my son while drunk…I just don’t have evidence to show the court.
I’ve thought of calling the cops when he leaves here drunk, but I doubt they will locate him while he’s on the road. They’d have to respond within seconds to catch him driving away.
I’ve also considered hiring a private investigator to track him & get proof, but doubt I can afford it.
Wow, there are some very angry people attacking me! He wasn’t an alcoholic when I met him 10 years ago. The drinking has become a problem the last 2 years.
The reason I am divorcing him is so MY SON won’t have to suffer life with his alcoholic father in the home. I also can’t stop my husband from driving him while drunk!
How dare anyone say I’m the one who is hurting my child. Divorce is incredibly painful for all of us, but in the end I have to protect my child!

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Answer by j_smith_7
A good lawyer is the answer.

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Should any one who owns a business be made to prove legal status?

Should all who apply for a business license be made sure that they are here legally?
Should this be a national requirement for all businesses?
Should illegal aliens be allowed to own a business here since they have disrespected our laws?
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City business owners must prove citizenship
Filling out an application is not enough anymore. Business owners within the city of Conyers must now confirm they are in the country legally before they can run a business.
Reporter: By Alena Parker, Staff Reporter
Email Address: alena.parker@rockdalecitizen.com

CONYERS — Filling out an application is not enough anymore. Business owners within the city of Conyers must now confirm they are in the country legally before they can run a business.

Local government agencies were recently called to verify citizenship and immigration status of business owners through the Systematic Alien Verification for Entitlements, or SAVE, program of the U.S. Department of Homeland Security and the U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services.

The Conyers City Council voted Jan. 20 to enter into an agreement with the federal agencies though Conyers city attorney Michael Waldrop noted they did not have much choice.

“The Georgia Legislature has required that cities and counties participate in the SAVE program to verify the legality of those who do business and receive benefits from the city,” Waldrop told the council members.

Councilman Marty Jones voiced concerns that paying for notary services every year, in addition to getting a business license, would be inconvenient “on the operations side.”

“People who write the regulations don’t have to live by them,” Jones said.

The new requirement will affect the roughly 1,800 businesses in Conyers.

“Unless you have a notary in your office, the proprietor is going to have to go somewhere — whether it’s the city, the bank, the post office, somewhere — to get someone to notarize this document (affidavit), swearing that he is, in fact, a legal citizen or here legally, whatever the status may be,” Waldrop said.

The new requirement will affect those applying for retirement benefits, health benefits, contracts, alcoholic beverage licenses, occupation tax certificates, taxi cab licenses, insurance company licenses, pawn brokers licenses, massage therapists licenses, billiard room operations licenses, precious metals and gems dealers licenses, conducting flea market licenses and peddlers and itinerant trades licenses, according to the city documents.

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daughter’s father has visitation rights, but he is drinking and doing drugs and I cannot prove it.?

My daughter’s father and I have a court ordered custody arrangement. The father was an alcoholic and drug user, and after he completed rehab I agreed to let him have visitations. We live in different states so his family picks her up and takes her to there home hours away. We recently became on ‘good terms’ and he began telling me scary things via the phone (shooting someone up with meth, drinking alcohol, living with a guy who uses drugs, how his mother is messed up on alcohol and xanax.) I am in fear of letting my daughter go out to see him now, but I don’t have any proof as to what he is doing except for what he tells me over the phone, which makes it difficult to take him to court. He won’t say anything incriminating over text messages or on my answering machine either. What can I do to protect my daughter?

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HOW I SHOULD MOTIVATE MY FATHER TO LEAVE ALCOHOL.BEING RUSSIAN GIRL I THINK HE SHOULD PROVE HIMSELF GOODINDIAN?

HE IS A GOOD BUSINESS MAN AND HAVE SPECIAL RESPECT IN THE SOCIETY. HE ALWAYS TOUGHT EVERYONE SPECIALLY ME INDIAN VALUES AND CULTURE.

NOW HE IS BEHAVING JUST LIKE ANIMAL. WITHIN A PAG HE IS OUT OF ORDER. WE HAVE TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL GIVE HIM GLUCOSE AND TREATMENT. THIS REPEATS EVERY MONTH 3 AND 4 TIMES.

NOW PLEASE HELP ME HOW SHOULD I MOTIVATE HIM TO LEAVE ALCOHAL AND AFTER ALCOHAL HE USED TO DO STUPIDITY. MOREOVER INDIAN CULTURE IS INSULTED. FOR THE RESPECT OF INDIANS AT LEAST HE SHOULD NOT EVEN TOUCH THE ALCOHOL.

FROM THIS QUESTION AND BEING RUSSIAN GIRL I WANT TO SAY PLEASE NEVER AND NEVER ANY INDIAN SHOULD DRINK LIKE THIS.

SEND MOTIVATION WITH POSITIVE THOUGHTS FOR MY FATHER SO THAT IN FUTURE HE SHOULD NOT DRINK ALCOHOL.

THANKS

SANDY

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