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Lindsay Lohan – Lohans Father Pessimistic About Jail Term
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on July 25, 2010
Lindsay Lohan – Lohans Father Pessimistic About Jail Term
LINDSAY LOHAN’s father feels “pessimistic” about her jail sentence – he’s convinced time behind bars will make his daughter’s personal problems worse.The Mean Girls star…
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Lohan’s father offered to pay for appeal
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on July 24, 2010
Lohan’s father offered to pay for appeal
Lindsay Lohan’s father is baffled by his daughter’s decision not to appeal against her jail sentence, because he even offered to pay for her to challenge the ruling.
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Lohan urges father to stay away
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on July 23, 2010
Lohan urges father to stay away
Lindsay Lohan has urged her father to stay away on the eve of her incarceration.
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Lindsay Lohan – Lohans Father Offered To Pay For Appeal
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on July 21, 2010
Lindsay Lohan – Lohans Father Offered To Pay For Appeal
LINDSAY LOHAN’s father is baffled by his daughter’s decision not to appeal against her jail sentence, because he even offered to pay for her to challenge the ruling.The…
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Lindsay Lohan Urges Father to Stay Away
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on July 20, 2010
Lindsay Lohan Urges Father to Stay Away
Lindsay Lohan has issued an emotional plea to her father to stay away from her as she battles her demons in rehab – insisting she is in a “great place” and doesn’t want her dad to hamper her progress.
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Lindsay Lohan’s Father Thinks Rehab Will Make No Difference
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on July 18, 2010
Lindsay Lohan’s Father Thinks Rehab Will Make No Difference
Lindsay Lohan’s father believes entering a sober house will not solve his daughter’s problems.
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Why can’t I get over my father?
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on July 13, 2010
It’s been 10 years since my father abandoned me. I just recently got back in-touch because I was hoping to get a perspective on things from someone who went through similar stuff and who might have the perspective of hindsight.
Problem is that he is still completely unapologetic about his behavior, his alcoholism, his sending me away to military school for no reason and tearing me away from all of the friends I had when I was a kid. He’s basically a bastard and I want a freakin’ apology.
He’s been a petty and not-so-petty con man his entire life. Spent time in prison for armed robbery in his 20s, has many ex-wifes, illegitimate kids I’ve never met, has been homeless and now is in Mexico living off of social security benefits.
Why can’t I seem to put this behind me? All conversations with him are circular. One moment he’ll tell me he loves me and in another will say that I’m the most selfish person he has ever known and that he no longer wants to talk to me. My family has a history of mental illness, so that may explain it – he may be unable to actually relate normally, in which case, again – how do I put this behind me? Why can’t his display of mental illness be enough to give me closure?
I’m successful, live in NYC, but am sorta lonely with very few friends. I know he’s spent his life largely friendless and I really wish I could get his perspective on how he’d do things differently if he had the chance to do so.
My father has end stage liver disease – how much time does he have left?
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on July 10, 2010
My father is 53 years old and has just been diagnosed with end stage liver disease. Unknown to the family, he had been diagnosed with Hepatitis C nearly 10 years ago and never sought treatment. He was in ICU on a ventilator and bleeding from his nose and mouth for about a week, he is now at home. His abdomen is very swollen (he looks 9 months pregnant), and his bloodwork and ammonia levels are all out of whack. When he was in the hospital, they said in order to be put on the list for a liver transplant he had to be alcohol free for 6 months. He can’t be put on the list because the doctors said he doesn’t have 6 months left to live, but this is the only sort of time frame we’ve been given. I moved out of state in February and it is hard for me to get up there to visit him, as it’s either a 14 hour drive or a very expensive plane ticket. I just wish I could know how much time he has left. Any input or help at all is much appreciated . . . feel free to email me as well. Thanks.
FYI – it has been about 3 weeks since his initial diagnosis.
What rights does a father have if his name isn’t on the birth certificate?
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on July 4, 2010
I have a friend who has had his daughter for the last year after her mother abandoned her at his home in Minnesota. The mother has drug problems and was detained while in MN for trying to kill herself. She ended up in AZ in a rehab. The child is 8 years old and has already had 4 open heart surgeries trying to correct a problem due to drug use by the mother during the pregnancy. The mother also has a 19 year old son who was by her parents. The daughter had also been raised by the grandparents off and on whenever the mother didn’t feel like having her. K, as I will refer to the daughter, was not allowed to see her father unless he went back to a relationship with the mother, well he tried to work things out so he could be with K and the mother went to MN. She ended up leaving and had no contact with the father or K for almost the last year. The granparents also did not try to contact anyone. Last Friday the mother and grandparents went to MN and took the child while the father was working. They had the backing of the local police because the fathers name wasn’t on the birth certificate. They took her without taking any of her medications or anything. On a side note if he isn’t the father then why is Riverside County collecting court ordered child support from him? The grandparents did make a comment about her SSI money and such and it is sad that they seem to only want K for the money they can get. So if there is anyone who has any advice I can pass on it would be welcomed. The father is distraught and has no idea where they went or if he will see K again.
he does have a paternity test pending and no they were never married.
daughter’s father has visitation rights, but he is drinking and doing drugs and I cannot prove it.?
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on July 3, 2010
My daughter’s father and I have a court ordered custody arrangement. The father was an alcoholic and drug user, and after he completed rehab I agreed to let him have visitations. We live in different states so his family picks her up and takes her to there home hours away. We recently became on ‘good terms’ and he began telling me scary things via the phone (shooting someone up with meth, drinking alcohol, living with a guy who uses drugs, how his mother is messed up on alcohol and xanax.) I am in fear of letting my daughter go out to see him now, but I don’t have any proof as to what he is doing except for what he tells me over the phone, which makes it difficult to take him to court. He won’t say anything incriminating over text messages or on my answering machine either. What can I do to protect my daughter?
How do I file for child support if my son’s Father isn’t on the birth certificate?
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on July 3, 2010
He left me when I was pregnant to smoke dope. I didn’t know where he was when my son was born so I didn’t call him to come to the hospital, so he is not on the birth certificate.
I wasn’t going to ask for child support initially, because I don’t want him to have any custody over his son if he is high on meth 100% of the time he is awake. He begged and begged to meet his son, and when he was 4 months old I caved and gave him the chance… which he blew off to smoke dope.
Now, when I look at my son I’m pissed at him to no end, and I want child support. He doesn’t have a job so I’m not going to get any, but if he ever pulls his life back together he needs to contribute to the life of the child he made. He shouldnt just be allowed to knock up a dozen women while he roams the street getting high all day and night. He has another son in Cali who he walked out on 8 years ago. She filed for child support and he has to pay when he works.
He is not on the birth certificate… and I don’t want him awarded any custody because he’s always high… what are the steps I have to take to prove to a court he’s the Father, and to request he take a drug test if he wants visitation? I’d put money on it that he won’t even show to court. He was ordered to go to rehab in lieu of prison for violating his probation for getting caught shoplifting with dope on him, but he never went, so Im sure there is a warrant for him.
I also don’t have the slightest idea where he lives, so I don’t know how they’d serve him. Last I checked he was homeless and robbing people to pay for hotels so he could sell drugs out of them to have money to use them. What a winner right? His mom keeps me well updated, she and the rest of his fam are just as pissed at him as I am. She is the one who strongly insisted I file for child support.
I can’t afford a lawyer at all. So, I need to figure out what I need to do on my own and make it happen. I know absolutely nothing about how anything in family court is done. I live in Phoenix, AZ. Any advice you could give would be a major help. Thank you!
HOW I SHOULD MOTIVATE MY FATHER TO LEAVE ALCOHOL.BEING RUSSIAN GIRL I THINK HE SHOULD PROVE HIMSELF GOODINDIAN?
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on June 29, 2010
HE IS A GOOD BUSINESS MAN AND HAVE SPECIAL RESPECT IN THE SOCIETY. HE ALWAYS TOUGHT EVERYONE SPECIALLY ME INDIAN VALUES AND CULTURE.
NOW HE IS BEHAVING JUST LIKE ANIMAL. WITHIN A PAG HE IS OUT OF ORDER. WE HAVE TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL GIVE HIM GLUCOSE AND TREATMENT. THIS REPEATS EVERY MONTH 3 AND 4 TIMES.
NOW PLEASE HELP ME HOW SHOULD I MOTIVATE HIM TO LEAVE ALCOHAL AND AFTER ALCOHAL HE USED TO DO STUPIDITY. MOREOVER INDIAN CULTURE IS INSULTED. FOR THE RESPECT OF INDIANS AT LEAST HE SHOULD NOT EVEN TOUCH THE ALCOHOL.
FROM THIS QUESTION AND BEING RUSSIAN GIRL I WANT TO SAY PLEASE NEVER AND NEVER ANY INDIAN SHOULD DRINK LIKE THIS.
SEND MOTIVATION WITH POSITIVE THOUGHTS FOR MY FATHER SO THAT IN FUTURE HE SHOULD NOT DRINK ALCOHOL.
THANKS
SANDY
any advice for a single father fighting for custody?
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on June 27, 2010
i had my son for about four years now, but it was only a verbal agreement that i start him in school, and lives with me because we live in different counties, she has 2 other children with 2 different dads, a couple years later she got into trouble with cps being drunk and leaving her youngest in the house unintended, unfortunately the cps had to check me out as well for months. they found nothing on me, and eventually the judge awarded me physical custody, she was in and out of rehab twice during the last year and a half, in February she finished her last phase of the court ordered rehab, now she wants custody and hired a lawyer, she said some very bad things about me, however she has no proof of anything.the problem i face is Sense this all was court ordered she was under her best behavior, because the dhs was watching her the whole time, so as far as getting anything on her will be very hard, will the judge look at her past or look at it as she is clean and sober now. i only think she is staying sober until the court is done. i moved farther away from her but within the 100 mile rule. and she is using that as leverage because i never asked permission. i live in michigan. any help would be appreciated.
If a father is a drug addict, child molestor, and a deadbeat………?
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on May 4, 2010
should he have rights to see his children? My girlfriends ex is all of the above and she has gone thru hell with the court system. The court orders him to rehab, he doesn’t go, then he gets another extension at the next hearing. What is wrong with the system?
can a father sign over custody to his wife?
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on April 28, 2010
My husband has twin boys from his first marriage. His ex wife has caused alot of hell and abuses drugs. Not to long ago he recieved a phone call that his children were in danger because she owed a drug dealer. My husband handled his stress the wrong way and got drunk and got into some trouble. Since then he has attended counseling and alcohol treatment to learn to handle this stress appropriatly, he does done very well with his treatment and has controlled himself well. His ex wife filed for sole custody after she found out he got in trouble and we have to go to court tomorrow. Even though he went through the treatment and has been doing good he still has to serve 60 days in jail starting Sept. 1. Here is where it gets complicated. We have finally have proof of her drug abuse through medical records our lawyer got. She went to the hospital and after she tested positive for cocaine and marjuiana she checked herself into the psych unit and then checked herself out because they wouldn’t give her narcotic. The hospital said that she defintily has a drug problem all throughout her records. Therefore the children are in danger with her and her parents because her parents kept taking her to the hospital to get narcotics. Our question is that since we have this evidence, and the children are already used to spending every other week with us, Can my husband sign over his custody to me while he serves his 90 days? They have joint custody, but she is a danger to them and he is very concern. He says that he knows that he needs to suffer the consequences for his actions, but he doesn’t want to have to worry about his children everyday. I have no drug abuse history or anything on my criminal record. After his 60 this issue with him is done. Can we do this so I can keep the kids safe?
He only has to serve 60 days not 90 sorry. And he doesn’t have to check into the jail until Sept.1 so he is out right now.
he wants sole custody, but with him having to go to jail she says that she will get custody. So he wants to sign over custody temporarily to me so I can care for them while he is gone and when he gets out he will fight for sole custody.
can i ask for the father of my children to be ordered to go into rehab if he wants to see our children?
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on February 7, 2010
he has a prescription drug problem and im in the process of leaving but knowing him he will go after me but i dont even want him to have visitation until he gets help. can i have him ordered by the judge to go to rehab?
I have physical and pretty much legal custody of my son. His father is an alcoholic and wont to go to rehab..?
Posted by admin in Uncategorized on February 6, 2010
We have no formal or court ordered custody agreement, only a child support judgement. I have decided that until his father gets professional help for his alcoholism, that I will not allow him to take him from where we live, back to his home. He can only come here and visit with him. If he pursues this in court, do I have a right to request he have only be allowed visitation in my son’s primary home (mine). It doesn’t necessarily have to be supervised, just away from the alcohol.
Aside from his alcoholism, he and I are probably as close as people can be without being together. We both love our son very much, and care for eachother very deeply. I have no problem with him being in my home, thats not the issue, I just don’t want his son growing up around a drunk. I don’t want him to have a lifetime of dissapointments because his father can’t get his act together. He hasn’t been a threat as of yet, but who knows…it can only get worse if he doesn’t get professional help.
Most imporantly I’m not interested in more child support (although it would be nice, $400 a month doesn’t go far when you’re paying for private school). I am also not interested in keeping him from seeing his son. My main priority and concern is protecting my son from what could happen, and how it will affect his emotional well being having an alcoholic father. Other than that he’s a good person, very intellegent, just a drunk.
I’m not interesting in initiating a court case because I’m basically the one calling the shots now and if he’s interested in going against what I am saying, then he’ll have to initiate it. But I’m sure deep down he knows I am right, and wont pursue it because he knows he doesn’t have a leg to stand on.
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