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Do you think it’s fair that my children should spend equal time with either parent?

I’m separated and soon to be divorced. We decided to do the share care arrangement and the boys seem to like this. Their father suffers from alcoholism yet refuses to admit this to himself. He abused me verbally, physically and sexually during our loveless marriage and he shows no remorse. I have forgiven him and he has never physically abused the children. They seem to think its funny when he is drunk. My youngest suffers from torn loyalties and has told me he would rather just live with me and my new partner but says it’s not fair on Dad. Dad tends to use the children to get at me. He palms them off to babysitters every chance he gets. I would like to take him to court and fight for custody but feel that this would upset the children even more. I currently have a protection order out against him which protects me and my partner. He also is a compulsive liar. The children believe his lies and receive conflicting advice regarding morals and what’s right and wrong.

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My question is: Should I have not responded at all because I couldn’t answer her question? Or should I have worded it differently and if so how (and wouldn’t that be a violation anyway)? Or should Yahoo have done something different?

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DUI laws scenario for you to decide if it is fair treatment?

It is 2:30 am; a man makes a left turn doesn’t use a signal. Officer behind him pulls him over smells alcohol; after a field sobriety test, and breathlizer man is arrested for DUI, BA of .09
5 days later this man goes before a judge (with an attorney he has to hire) pleads no contest and takes his penalty. No one is hurt, every thing went smooth right?
Now what if I tell you this man was 21 years old had just come back from deployment from Iraq. Hasn’t been home since he was 18. Was drinking at a bar 2 blocks from home and driving his friend home who passed out and was unable to walk. This young man gets the following;Suspended liscense.
Court ordered DUI prevention, MADD, and several other classes. Court ordered interlock device for 1 year. court ordered 96 hours community service,He paid the attonery $2000, the court $700 after all is said and done,and the interlock company gets a total of $ 1000,Plus his commanding officer gives him a dishonarble and fines him 30days pay.
I guess what I am asking does the punishment fit the crime?
Not apples to oranges..
We are talking about someone who came home went drinking and started taking a friend home who was obviously intoxicated. While the person in question was over the legal limit and breaking a law why is the punishment so harsh. This is a first time offense. However with the nations current laws this man will not be eligble for any respectable career because he recieved a dishonarble discharge, and is now presumably in debt. My personal opnion is that this penalty does not fit the crime in question. No one was injured or in apperant danger. The person in question was nearly a 100 yards from home. So why so strict for every offender?
No people this does happen in several states on a first offense. Also several commands through out the US will give a dishonarble or Other than honarble to a first time offender that pleads guilty to prevent backlash from MADD or other agencies.

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