is that bad? This is my third pregnancy, and I’ve always been a heavy coffee drinker and since I’m not on my painkillers sleeping pills or my anti depressnts anymore (I had to go through a court ordered detox program at a rehab), I only get about two hours of sleep, which makes me have to drink even more coffee. sometimes, I go up to 50 hours without sleep. I have hallucinations all the time and sometimes I just get so angry that I want to stab my husband, when hes home, of course, because he is! never home and im sure that he is hgaving an affair but he wont accompany me to, the counseling, that I suggested we go to. im so sad and I dont even want to have this baby. uis there something wrong with? me? is this post partum depressan?
#1 by Military Mom Preg w/#1 on May 7, 2010 - 8:04 pm
Sigh. Troll. Two points.
#2 by Mizhelle on May 7, 2010 - 9:04 pm
Stop drinking coffee, too much of anything is bad.
#3 by Colerz on May 7, 2010 - 9:11 pm
WOw you should lighten up. Thats really bad for your heart and the baby. When my mom was preggy she dropped coffee and all that stuff all together. 10 cups of coffe is a little much for the baby i think. /
#4 by Kristie on May 7, 2010 - 10:05 pm
LOL.
How can you have postpartum DEPRESSION if you haven’t had a baby yet?
Oh, and coffee is really dangerous for you. You could kill the baby.
Along with the lack of sleep and stress and so on and so forth.
Troll.
#5 by CrazzyPanda on May 7, 2010 - 10:29 pm
only getting 2 hours of sleep is probably not the best thing when u are pregnant. i would go see or talk to your doctor about this.
#6 by ratatouillewoo on May 7, 2010 - 11:27 pm
You need to comitt yourself to a hospital so that the nurses there can take proper care of you.. You aren’t fit to take care of yourself let alone a baby. (also don’t believe this is a real question)
#7 by Erin G on May 8, 2010 - 12:27 am
okay first take a couple of deep breaths whenever you start feeling angry you have to other kids you need to take care of besides the one you our having now. Also try some tea and cut down a little on the coffe or go to decafe.
Secoundly go to the counsling without him it will help you with some of your feelings towards him and if you think he is having a affair do a little sneaking around and if you our really unhappy with him get a divorce so you can get away from him.
#8 by Isabell on May 8, 2010 - 1:21 am
the coffee is what is keeping you awake it is also not healthy for you or the baby you also need sleep to function properly
it isn’t depression it’s all the caffeine
#9 by Ivy on May 8, 2010 - 1:56 am
i feel u!!!!
im 32 weeks pregnant and my baby daddy broke up with me!!!!!!!!
your just depressed just like i was.
i actually wanted to have an abortion, [this is my 3rd pregnancy]
but i couldnt go throught the pain! i also thought of putting my baby for adoption but i know deep down it would kill me and ill never be able to forgive myself for abandoning my own child!!
just think of your baby and his health!! thats all that matters right know
if u was to kill your husband, what would you gain?? nothin right!? your children are the ones who are going to suffer as they get older!
go out with friends have some fun get your mind of things!!! men come and go!! dont let him bring you down!! you have to be stronger!!
#10 by holly f on May 8, 2010 - 2:07 am
I hope that this is not a real post…I will try to be as nice as I can considering that you might be just that “uninformed”, First of all do you have a primary Dr? If you did, they would tell you that this whole situation is wrong. Birth Control is free and you are a prime candidate for it. Why did you get pregnant?? Women like you frustrate those of us who actually WANT to be Moms and we do the very best thing we can (NO CAFFEINE TO MODERATE P/DAY MEANING 1 Cup of coffee) for our baby which is being healthy. The sad thing is that people like you have healthy babies and you don’t even want them~ Post Partum depression? I think not, foolishness, 100% STOP HAVING CHILDREN!!!