I am a mom and I currently have custody of my two older sons. Their father was arrested on a Felony drug charge twice. Pocession of a controlled substance.. The courts are wanting us to do and evaluation. they had ordered himto do a drug test which was negative and he is on probation for the next 3 years…He is also going to AA?NA and another drug rehab program… if he messes up once he has to do full time served in jail… i was wondering if anyone would know why we have to go through an evaluation?? I live in California Merced County. I believe the mediator is biased… how would I get that across to a judge? The mediator had previously given my ex-husband primary custody just less than a year ago… and knew about the first arrest and still gave my ex custody… I have never been in trouble don’t do drugs and I dont drink… but yet it seems like the mediator wants my ex to have my children. what should I do?
#1 by Amanda C on February 8, 2010 - 9:28 pm
Sounds like we’re not getting the whole story.
I don’t know of any judge or court system that just gives all custody to the father without the mother being proven unfit. Are you sure that you don’t have some skeletons in your closet??